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My 4th Year Death Anniversary - Could have been
My Untold Story
3 Years Ago,
I remember being a 15 yr old kid, unconscious of the world around me and of the life I lived.
A nobody, minding nobody’s business, not even mine.
Aimlessly shifting and bending with the flow of life just like a dead cell in the air
I don’t even remember asking why I do what I do.
Lived like a newborn. Careless. Fearless. No responsibility. Sounds quite fun, right?
Yeah! It was fun… Until life started to test me if I’m worthy to survive in this world.
I wasn’t ready to face all these
Bullies
Failures
Toxic People
Zero true friends
Social Comparison bias
Soul-sucking Social Media
Unexplainable physical pain
As a result, I dealt with:
Anxiety
Self-doubt
Anger Issues
Panic attacks
Low Self-esteem
Self Discrimination
Depression & Self-hatred
(But I’m glad I happened to face this all sooner)
To fight back, all I did was nothing but crying.
Cried alone.
Cried aloud.
Cried in the bedroom
Cried in the middle of the night
Cried. Cried. Cried. - That’s all I could remember
I had the victim mentality until I decided to quit my life - Don’t worry, I didn’t die
As far as I can remember, It was one of the months in the year of 2019,
The world was under lockdown when I decided to be free.
I walked up to the terrace,
Sat down by the steps and cried (don’t remember the reason)
And the thought of quitting my life crossed my mind out of nowhere
I stood up with my eyes dripping and walked to the edge and sat on the railing with one leg hanging out - I’m cold sweating now
I had one question going through my mind at that moment - Shall I? Shall not?
I chose, “I shall”
And boom… No, I didn’t jump
I heard my elder brother calling me in search of me. I heard him walking up the stairs shouting my name.
I got scared, got back on foot, and sat by the floor like nothing happened.
That was the first time, I questioned myself - “What the fuck was I about to do?”
I must mention this:
If my brother didn’t show up, this year (2023) would have been my 4th year death anniversary. I owe him my life.
But this is not a story about me. It’s about you.
Why would I want to make you read my untold story for nothing?
(Remember: I’m always about helping you)
If I can turn this purposeless, depressed kid who decided to quit his life, into a man disciplined enough to quit porn, sugar & social media and strong enough to do 100 pushups in under 5 mins every single day, all by myself
then how the fuck you’re thinking you can’t
break your social media addiction
break your mental glass cage
Get over your heartbreak
Get done with being a bitch. How long are you gonna ruin your life in the name of:
“Living my life”
“I can’t get over the pain”
“What can I do, it’s because of him”
But remember you don’t have to deal with this alone. I got you.
If you are struggling to pull yourself out of a rut, DM me on Twitter.
If you don’t think I can’t help you, I don’t know who the fuck can
Announcement:
I’m building up a guide to help people unf*ck their life at once and to build a purposeful deep life condensed with my 4 yrs’ worth of knowledge and expertise
I believe it’s the right of people to live a life filled with joy and satisfaction so I don’t wish to place the guide behind a paywall
The Guide will be launched as a Giveaway on Twitter @therajwise for free (For 24 hrs only because I don’t wanna end up being a starving artist)
Follow me, So you don’t miss it.
Alright then
Thanks for reading.
Let me know if you enjoyed this edition by replying to this mail or DM me on Twitter
(I’ll reply asap)
See you next week with a banger,
Have a good weekend!